By Gay Hendricks and Kate Ludeman in his book, The Corporate Mystic, successful leaders always receive feedback or criticism is honest. Although the criticism was scathing, coarse and degrading. Leaders must accept it and if need be thanked. Secrets of successful leadership is communication. The most difficult thing many people felt in communicating, in addition to active listening is to get and give honest feedback. In case this is something that is most valuable. More than that the great leader, not only receive feedback that does not wear, but also the death of the feedback is used as a remarkable impact. Because what is done, must be accountable to God as the responsibility of a leader.
Diriwayat by Ibn Al-Abbas RA: behold, the day after the near death of the Prophet SAW, commanded Bilal to call to prayer / call Muslims to prayer, then he and the congregation gathered azanlah both the Ansar Islam and the Prophet Mosque Muhajirin, and he prayed two rekaat with them, then he climbed the pulpit. After the puja and offer praise to God, then he said: "O Muslims, indeed I am a prophet to you, and pengajak advisor to the path of Allah with his permission, and indeed I am a brother like siblings and one father of a pity. So who's ever hurt me, greet before the Day of Resurrection. "
Similar cries were heard no one is awake to respond (to punish), until the command was repeated three times. Then arose a man named Ukasyah bin Muhsin and closer to the Prophet SAW, and said softly "Actually I was reluctant and did not have the heart if you do not recommend over and over again until I had to bring myself to tell here what ever happened to me by your action O Messenger of Allah while in the battle of Badr. Ie when approaching camel camel's yours is mine, I got off the camel closer to you so that I can smell your thighs. But then you picked up the whip untamu and I who exposed at the waist. I do not know and then you wonder whether intentionally or intend to hit untamu, but by not deliberately whip on my waist. "
"I wonder what I am purposely O Ukasyah?" Replied the Prophet, he ordered Bilal to go take a whip in the house of Fatima. Come out to the house of Fatima Bilal, there Fatimah asked "To what my dad took this whip?". "Your father is going to do kisos over himself." Bilal said. Then Fatima gave the whip and say who had the heart to receive kisos of the Prophet SAW.
Shortly after Bilal reached the mosque, immediately submit his whip to the Prophet and he gave to Ukasyah, the receipt of the whip by Ukasyah. Viewing Ukasyah was ready to whip it stood in unison Messenger Hadrat Abu Bakr and Hadrat Umar said "O Ukasyah receive from our law, I do not have the heart to see you put the whip on the skin of the Prophet."
"Sit down you two." Ordered Abu Bakr and Umar. "God already knows your position and sacrifice. Then Hadrat Ali stood up and said to Ukasyah "O Ukasyah you know I'm still alive besides Allah, therefore I am not willing to do something you have the Messenger, if you are clinging to reply to the Messenger of Allah, then this is my stomach and chest and back, select sekehendakmu to whip you with your stregnth. "
Messenger immediately said: "O Ali, I already know the position and the sacrifices, sit down!" Then look again two grandsons of the Prophet, namely Hasan and Husayn and said, "You know that we are his grandchildren, there is still blood relationship with him, then when you reply to us is the same as when you receive kisos of the Prophet. "
"Sit down you two," cried the Prophet and turned to Ukasyah, saying: "O Ukasyah Flog me, if indeed I really have to hit you." Ukasyah said: "O Messenger of Allah used to whip yours on my back open." Then the Messenger of Allah, so look back soon open his white skin. Ukasyahpun approached the Prophet with a whip who accompanied cried tears of the friends. Ukasyah so close to the Messenger of Allah and saw skin so white that he and his whip fell, and immediately kissed and hugged her waist Prophet's heart, saying: "Who was it who was willing to receive from you, O Messenger of punishment. Purposes, objectives and expectations are so attached to my body your body with the hope that your body becomes a barrier from the fire of Hell. "Messenger of Allah said:" Know that anyone who wants to see an expert Heaven, then look at this guy. "Immediately embraced him with the rest of the Muslims who have not sobbing subsided, saying: "happy is you've received a high degree, and thou shall be with the Messenger of Allah in Heaven someday. O God our ease to accept intercession, for the glory and Your greatness. "
Great leaders are leaders who are very loving and being loved by the people they lead. Nevertheless, these leaders are ready to receive feedback from the dead even ready to receive replies from people who never harmed and it is one of the secrets of success the Supreme Leader.
"Sit down you two." Ordered Abu Bakr and Umar. "God already knows your position and sacrifice. Then Hadrat Ali stood up and said to Ukasyah "O Ukasyah you know I'm still alive besides Allah, therefore I am not willing to do something you have the Messenger, if you are clinging to reply to the Messenger of Allah, then this is my stomach and chest and back, select sekehendakmu to whip you with your stregnth. "
Messenger immediately said: "O Ali, I already know the position and the sacrifices, sit down!" Then look again two grandsons of the Prophet, namely Hasan and Husayn and said, "You know that we are his grandchildren, there is still blood relationship with him, then when you reply to us is the same as when you receive kisos of the Prophet. "
"Sit down you two," cried the Prophet and turned to Ukasyah, saying: "O Ukasyah Flog me, if indeed I really have to hit you." Ukasyah said: "O Messenger of Allah used to whip yours on my back open." Then the Messenger of Allah, so look back soon open his white skin. Ukasyahpun approached the Prophet with a whip who accompanied cried tears of the friends. Ukasyah so close to the Messenger of Allah and saw skin so white that he and his whip fell, and immediately kissed and hugged her waist Prophet's heart, saying: "Who was it who was willing to receive from you, O Messenger of punishment. Purposes, objectives and expectations are so attached to my body your body with the hope that your body becomes a barrier from the fire of Hell. "Messenger of Allah said:" Know that anyone who wants to see an expert Heaven, then look at this guy. "Immediately embraced him with the rest of the Muslims who have not sobbing subsided, saying: "happy is you've received a high degree, and thou shall be with the Messenger of Allah in Heaven someday. O God our ease to accept intercession, for the glory and Your greatness. "
Great leaders are leaders who are very loving and being loved by the people they lead. Nevertheless, these leaders are ready to receive feedback from the dead even ready to receive replies from people who never harmed and it is one of the secrets of success the Supreme Leader.
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